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Speaking for myself as a 17 year old male who couldn't be any more proud to be a virgin, it's about waiting until you're comfortable and finding someone you heart. (Yes, I am a little girl!) Now's your chance to voice your opinion, skanks!  
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 Apr 25 2007, 02:56 AM
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Im a virgin. Im 14.
People under the age of 15 I think.. I just think the thought of 13 and 12 year olds and stuff having sex is gross.
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Being a total whore, not just for hugs but yeah...
any way. i think people should wait till the feel its right for them. I know for personal experiance if its not right in your heart and you still do it you will not feel right bout it ever.
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I don't think that having your virginity is something to be proud of or not..
The people who are proud of having it think they've got something over the people that don't, and the people that don't, think they've got something over the people that do. And then there are the people that don't, but wish they did, and the people that do, and wish they didn't. If you lose it, you lose it, you know? It's not a competition, and it's not a method in which to judge people. People who lost it young aren't necessarily sluts, and the people that haven't lost it aren't necessarily friget - and that's the mistake that alot of people make. I do, however, endorse losing it for the right reasons - and not the wrong ones. Lose it for love. Lose it because you're ready. Lose it because it's what you want to do, not because it's what you think you should do. It's your body, and it's your life. Nobody should be pressured into that kind of thing - not by friends, partners, or society.
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Think you wrapped it up very nicely, prostitot!
 I completely agree, though I do think you made a generalization. I can only speak for myself, but just because I'm a proud virgin it does not mean I think I've got something over those that don't or that I'm better than them in any way. I'd also like to expect the same from the other side! With me, it just means that I'm comfortable with not yet having sex, that it's okay with me, and that I'm happy being me. It's not like I shove it in peoples faces by holding a weekly virgin parade. But if someone asks if I'm a virgin and then they say something like, "awww, you poor thing"... I'm going to 'tsk' and say it's not a bad thing, that I'm super proud! Regarding my view of those who aren't virgins, if you're happy, then I'm happy! 
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I feel sorry for people who lose their virginity by getting raped.
That happened to a friend of mine and it affected her so badly.
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i lost mine at 21, I didn't even have a reason for why i waited. I think i was safe in my little comfort zone and new things just didn't compute well.
oh and i'm a awkward nerd.
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I really have to +1 to prostitot's post. I'm a virgin and happy with it. I want my first time to have some meaning as I know it's something that will be with me for the rest of my life, though I'm not necassarly waiting for marriage I wouldn't mind if I have to. Also a nice quote that I like "They don't say if you were a virgin on your grave, they do put if you were loved".
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There is no right or wrong age i think (unless you are under 14-15). But if you have been in a real relationship for a fair amount of time and are completely comfortable around the person then it doesnt matter. But i think the main problem with teenagers are they have sex hopeing that they will become closer to the person.
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lets get one thing out of the way- the first time is NOT special
it CANT be special. it is usually akward, and lets face it, you usually don't stay with the person you lost your virginity to.
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I dont know sky, my first time was spetial. It looking back on it it was akward and i haven't stayed with her but that dosen't mean it wasn't spetial.
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well, i guess the term "special" means different things to different people.
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Don't get pressured into doing it. Don't feel like you 'have' to. If you feel like you need to lose it to someone to keep them around, then said person is completely not worth it. Make it count.
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QUOTE (sky @ Apr 25 2007, 07:31 PM)  well, i guess the term "special" means different things to different people. Regardless, that was quite the generalization you made. It's as special as you want it to be, I think. Sure, it can be awkward, but it doesn't mean it's not special =\ and there are actually cases where people do stay with the people they lost it to.. Most people lose it young, th0, and quite frankly, when you're young, you're right - relationships don't last forever. There is a high chance that you won't still be with them years on, but what about the people that decided to wait for that special someone? Does that mean it's not special for them? I mean, holding back for that long, and then giving yourself to them? That's special, in all senses of the word.
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it's not always special, there is no scenario that is 100% special all the time, that is bad generalisation u made prositot
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I didn't say it always has to be special, sugarplum - I just don't think that it's never special.
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you're quite right. there are many scenarios where it is special. in fact id go as far to say as nearly most, coz as i was so understandably corrected - even if its bad, it can still be special. i'm sorry prostitot, you're right.
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No no no, I didn't say it can't be bad. It can be not special. It can be anything you want to it to be, but I just don't think it's fair to say that it's never special.
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its only NOT special if its rape. so there is a never
 but just unlikely
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yeah i lost mine awhile ago and it was kinda special in a sence.
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