Lily
Dec 14 2006, 02:53 AM
Ok, I Am REALLY Jealous Of Someone.

I Really Really Like This Guy Who We Shall Call.. Jake* For Now. Jake Likes Me Back But We Arent Really A Couple.. Well Jake Has Become Really Close Friends With My Other Close Friend Rhyllie* And I Feel REALLY Jealous. I Dont WANT To Feel Jealous But.. I Do. I Cant Help It. I Tried But.. I Just Cant Make It Go Away. And Now I Feel SOO Guilty Cus I Am Like Being A Biatch To Jake, But Not On Purpose. I Feel Evil. I Mean They Are Fully Entitled To Be Friends.. I Like Them Like That But They Have Gotten Closer Lately And I Feel Like Jake Likes Rhyllie More Than Me. Maybe I Am Just Being Paranoid, A Bitch Or Just Plain STUPID. But I Dont Know How To Deal With It. I Like, Love Jake And Rhyllie.. So Annoying.
I'm SOO STUPID Right Now. I Wonder If They Can Tell If I Am Jealous?
Jake Has Like Asked If I Was Okay And Is Worried About Me Apparently. But I'm Not Sure.
*Names Changed For Privacy (HAHA ALWAYS WANTED TO DO THAT)

xx <3
insanekilla
Dec 14 2006, 06:10 AM
Show him the goods.
Fedora.Pirate
Dec 14 2006, 09:23 AM
My advice, is tell this Jake guy that you like him if he doesn't already know, and even if he does remind him. I've found so far honesty is the best policy when it comes to one's love life (but hey i could be wrong) but only after a certain point and it sounds like you and "Jake" have reached that point. If he doesn't like you back, then that's just life, but if he does then talk to him about this Rhyllie person and both of your feelings about it, hearing what he says should put most things at ease for you.
Also remember that if he's worth your time he's worth your trust, but if he breaks that trust then he's obviously not worth anything.
Blingmaster
Dec 14 2006, 09:38 AM
People who get jealous when their significant other is close to a member of the opposite sex think that way because they themselves are shopping on the side. Fact.
Lily
Dec 14 2006, 10:21 AM
mm.. But.. Im not "shopping" and I talked to him about it and the girl... And I just dont really understand why I am feeling this way.. He said to me "Lily you know I am much closer to you than Rhyllie* I Love You" And I Dont Know That made Me Feel A LITTLE Better But I Am Still hesitant... But He understood. And I am glad I was Honest With Him. But I still Feel A TInge Of Jealous-ness When he mentions Her Name... Anyway Im Off,
Lilyy cxx <3
Fedora.Pirate
Dec 14 2006, 10:32 AM
You need to trust him, it's as simple as that. If you can't trust him with other girls then something is wrong, either with him or the way you feel about him.
Sam
Dec 14 2006, 11:33 AM
Sorry i have to ask why is there a capital at the start of every word?
Lily
Dec 14 2006, 11:51 AM
You know... Im really not sure. I am going to break that habbit from now on.
Ok wish me luck.
Lily xx <3
Ashfish
Dec 14 2006, 08:26 PM
Good luck!..even though it may be a little late..and a little rhetorical- I mean it =]
Blingmaster
Dec 16 2006, 05:16 AM
meh, that theory has not failed me yet. You should probably work on those jealousy issues though, nobody likes a girlfriend that is all 'YOU WERE TALKING TO THAT GIRL YOU MIGHT AS WELL HAVE BEEN NAKED AND HORIZONTAL'
you all know what i mean.
Fedora.Pirate
Dec 16 2006, 09:14 AM
She's trying to work on it, that's why she posted.
Blingmaster
Dec 16 2006, 09:32 AM
QUOTE (Fedora.Pirate @ Dec 16 2006, 07:35 PM)

She's trying to work on it, that's why she posted.
THANK YOU GENIUS, you may now go back to masturbating to pirate porn, jerk.
Fedora.Pirate
Dec 16 2006, 10:02 AM
No need for personal attacks, I just thought that your post was unhelpful seeing as she's already considered jealousy to be stupid and then explained that she is feeling jealous of one of her acquaintances/friends you would assume that she's trying to work on her "jealousy issues".
Blingmaster
Dec 16 2006, 10:06 AM
yeah my bad.
lozinabox
Dec 17 2006, 08:58 PM
your situations seems quite farmiliar

jealousy is a stupid thing. it can make the honest man an absolute jerk.
As fedora.pirate said, honesty is very important. maybe if you tell this jake* person that you feel that way but dont want to... just explain everything

it may ease things, make your relationshp better with him and also help him understand you better. just because you may think that he thinks in a certain way, doesnt mean he does
Lily
Dec 18 2006, 01:40 AM
I talked to him about it, and was honest with him... and I totally took it all the wrong way.. thanks to your advice we are now closer than ever! Thanks guys!
Love Lily xx <3
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