Sarah loves Daniel(L)(8)Loving you, isnt really something i should do(8)         YELLOW CRAYONS FOREVER ADRI!     says:
hi
Daniel (L) Sarah says:
hi
     Sarah loves Daniel(L)(8)Loving you, isnt really something i should do(8)         YELLOW CRAYONS FOREVER ADRI!     says:
sup
Daniel (L) Sarah says:
bout to go 2 bed
     Sarah loves Daniel(L)(8)Loving you, isnt really something i should do(8)         YELLOW CRAYONS FOREVER ADRI!     says:
ok bi
Daniel (L) Sarah says:
night


after 2 hours of waiting for him to talk to me first i get that...

i dont get him at all. omg the only thing i am good at is people, dealing with them, interpreting them, understanding where they come from... but i can never work him out i think it is one of the main reasons im attracted to him because i cant figure it out. one day he will be talking about moving in together eventually and the next i get the silent treatment and he thinks that he can just kiss me and it will be ok. he sends so many fucking mixed messages i dont no wat to listen too. it is sooooo fucking annoying!

maybe you should have tried talking to him first.

i do all the time and i did earlier that night then i went for dinner and came back.
the thing that really bugs me is that this happens frequently lik last week he was like drowning in assignments which im ok wif cause skool comes first but he was on msn and i figure if he is on msn i can talk to him wen i told him this he replied thats stupid and continued ignoring me, so i vented to a friend and she said oh hes talking to me.. WTF? then apparently he told her he didnt want to talk to me while he did his homework because he would want to concentrate on me rather then the homework... once again i could almost maybe understand if he told me and he wasnt talkin to other people because seriously hu does that!

This is confusing?
It's pretty much how most guys tend to act in relationships (or so I'm guessing). I think you can pinpoint it down to attention seeking. He wants you to vent to your friends about him, he wants you to constantly be trying to figure him out and he wants you to create an ISFAT about him.

If everything was going peachy then there wouldn't be a need to think about him as much as you do. I'm personally surprised that previous bf's haven't done the same thing.

Last relationship I was in, I was constantly changing from asshole to nicehole, I think because subconsciously I thought that the more she thinks about me the better. You even said one of the reasons you like this guy is because he's so difficult to figure out.

I guess if I was in Daniel's shoes I'd want you to talk to me about it in person, alone, just so I would know that your serious. Its hard to talk about this stuff over the internet/smsing and even by phone. Just when you're out together bring it up. It comes off more important that way.

Good luck!

Yeah, guys do that, or so I've noticed. They don't realise, though, that the whole 'asshole' thing is really destructive.

If he is just seeking attention, then you've gotta talk to him. Let him know that when he treats you like that, you hurt. Sure - you think about him more - but it's never in the good way. It's in the doubtful way, and it's a focus on his flaws.

A relationship is a commitment to another person. It's a bond. It's a mutual liking. You shouldn't have to constantly be hurting because of him, or trying to figure him out. He should be letting you in on that because he wants to.. He should realize that if he keeps pushing you away like he does, you may not always come back. You shouldn't be expected to. What's a relationship if it's built on hurt? Sometimes love just isn't enough.

Hurting someone just to get them to feel closer to you?
It's stupid relationship games.

Speak up. You'll regret it later if you don't. Trust me.

On the plus side, though, atleast he has a (L) Sarah at the end of his nickname =)

just dont let him walk all over you

I lol at all three of these comments

i give him enough attention geez its me hu should be doing the attention games. but even if i did he wouldnt bat an eyelid.

Heh, I don't encourage those attention games, girly =P
I know how appealing they may seem at the moment, but they're so not worth it.
If you're both sabotaging the relationship, who is there left to save it?


.talk.to.him.

if the sex is crap too just break up.
it's simple. easy. and a month later the heartache is gone.

yeah by the sound of it i think this guy is in need of a ticket to dumpsville.
if he's a jerk just dump that fool. It doesn't sound like he's going to change. If you don't think it's going to work and you continue seeing him then you don't really have anyone to blame but yourself. Take the initiative and get rid of him

btw i just read the title of this thread. what do u mean "wtf is wif guys"
guys r awesome. especially in zombie form (looks to slurpee)

Zombie Chicks are hotter though, and yeah i think its funny how whenever women (see i did it to) are having relationship problems they might blame it on the entire gender of their partner, but then again us males do have our weekly meetings about being evil. This week its poison pizza

i agree with chimp and prostitot. if he treats you in a manner you cannot be acustomed to its not worth it. one thing to think about- can you see yourself being with him next year? in 5 years?

wait, what?
you think i'm telling her to get out of there quicks?
neg!
i'm telling her to, and i quote,

.talk.to.him.

and then if he's not worth it, dump him =P

Do you like him? Do you enjoy spending time with him?

If you answered no to any of the above two questions.

"welcome to dumpsville... population, you"

Sarah, I think you should see how stuff go's with Daniel.
But I would definatly encourage you to talk to him.
In person.

talking is an awesome thing.. never jump to conclusions! by talking to him you know that you have made a decision on very good grounds instead of an assumption/whatever you want to call it.

I know boys liek that o to well, you try and try to be there friend maybe even more and what do you end up with? a "hi, sup? ok good or get this one dono" Same old replys, some people just wernt desinged to talk over the internet and this boy sounds like he is begginning to walk all over you, dont bother with him and bother with boys who talk back to you and are interested in what you are saying there are alote of cute and sweet boiis out there that i am sure would love to talk to you so dont waste your time on this one boy who doesnt seem to talk very much. i have found with boys like this it is much easyer talking to a brike wall xD

how to explain how this thread makes me feel.

ill compare it to the sun. The feelings of disgust (D) and anger (A) are synthesizing together inside my brain in a fusion process to create Hatium (DA) and of course this process is making my brain get to temperatures as high as 1 million degrees because of the sheer amounts of raw feelings being created. whilst i am very angry right now, hatium is a very hard element to utilize to convey to other people who dont feel the same way.

Has it ever clicked to you why he is behaving like this?

Because I had a guy friend once, who was having conversation problems, was just reacting to his own family problems.

I know how annoying it can be liek this one guy i have total thing for right now was like thaty at first, you just goota keep on being talketive and friendly trust me it ends up being nutral where you both talk to each other but i know in hte mean time you are going to feel like you just wanna explode